Committment issues are also a thing in this day and age, however, if my father had not given up on his first marriage, I and my siblings would never have been born through his second (which has lasted now for 33 years! It's about finding the qualities and strengths that work well together, not about settling for second best. Reply to monkey-minx on 6/29/2008 809 AMHow can anyone be perfect? I agree with wanting the the best but if you dont make some sacraficies you will only end up special and alone instead of special with that special someone.
I think some people have a very highly inflated sense of self worth.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
Why then, would we be expected to settle for anyone who does not share certain attributes we consider important?
Yes there are a lot of people out there with failed relationships and things that would be deemed as 'baggage', but, what would you call baggage? I also knew a woman who was neurotic about cleaning the house, almost to the point of obsessive, her new boyfriend - now husband I should point out, loved it, as his ex was a slob! I agree with wanting the the best but if you dont make some sacraficies you will only end up special and alone instead of special with that special someone.
what is left is lots of people with baggage or some history that they have gone one wants car boot but is quality seconds not good enough?
I dont think i am special but one day i may be somebody elses special and i am sure they will accept me for all my faults and history as i will them.
However I like to scan on here and find some of the threads very interesting and some funny too.
I don't think i'm any more special than the next person.
Most of the time I just like the chat because I tend to be a bit of an insomniac and none of my mates or family are awake to talk to.